Monday, January 13, 2014

Family Visit

So... this post ended up longer than I planned. I hope you still enjoy it!

Wow—what an amazing meeting of different parts of my life.

For those of you who don't know, my mom and sister were able to visit me in Austria over Christmas and New Years. They landed on the 22nd of December and left January 3rd. On that interval we got to do so much—it was absolutely wonderful.

December 22-23: Exploring Vienna

(not-yet) bright and early on the 22nd I took a 5:30am train to meet my mom and sister in Vienna. Villach is a good 4 hours by train away from Vienna, so visiting the city was not something I easily do often. I got there with plenty of time to meet them at the airport and show them around.
It was so great seeing them both again, since the last time we saw each other was in September, and (if my current summer plans work out) I may not see them again until Late July. Vienna is not “my city” and possibly never will be. I have some acquaintances there and have visited a few times. Given our short time there (and jetlag on their parts), we mostly stuck to a few touristy sights—which we all enjoyed.





December 24-26: Christmas in Villach

We got in late the night of the 23rd to my current town of Villach. It was great for me to show them where I lived and what I did here. We saw “my” river and “my” cafe, not to mention the Christmas markets still in full swing those last days.



For Christmas Eve we all went to a beautiful midnight mass in one of the churches just a few minute walk from my house.



Christmas Day was quite wonderful—the other American teaching assistant Karen joined us! We cooked enough delicious food for the four of us, and Karen brought some dishes to complete the meal. We also bonded, conversed, and laughed over a rousing game of Cards Against Humanity, one of my Christmas presents. Definitely a Christmas I will remember.

 


On the 26th, we had time for a lovely lunch at my mentor teacher's house. It was great that my family and her family could meet each other. Of course the food was also quite delicious


December 26-28: Back to where it all began.
Shortly after lunch we hopped on our train(s) to.... Altmuenster!

For those of you who don't know, I spent August-January of my exchange year in/around the beautiful town of Gmunden. Our language camp was also in the next town over, Altmuenster, where I met Maggi for the first time almost 5 1/2 years ago.

We saw lots of sites that I have known for years. We watched the swans glide across the Traunsee, their aggression kept well-hidden beneath an air of noble grace. We visited a park and the See Schloss Ort, free of any hotels, despite what Austrian soap operas will have you believe. We saw the inside of the Altmuenster church—where memories of teenaged choirs, “Silent Nights”, and old and new people alike melded together for me.



Ceramic objects were also somehow a theme of the visit: from a visit to the, Gmunder Keramik factory to a stunning toilet museum (yes) to the plates we ate off—whether at the grocery store cafeteria I spent my time between classes or at cozy, locally-run restaurants in Altmuenster.

To me, however, the place that stood out the most was still our first evening and last morning in Maggi's apartment. In addition to my own saga of gross misunderstandings, nativity, and growing up in all ways imaginable, that space as seen many amazing stories. Just talking to Maggi, those walls (complete with original art from her daughter) have seen the beginnings of love stories and development of unbreakable friendships. The rooms have served as a sanctuary, a gathering place, and a space to share secrets. It is a space loaded with meaning and significance for so many people. The fact that my mom and sister got to meet Maggi and spend time here was one of the highlights of the trip





December 29th and 30th: To Hallein and Salzburg

Though my journey from Altmuenster to Hallein (well, Oberalm) was first by car, we took the train along a similar enough path. Like nearly five years ago, Elisabeth picked me up and welcomed me so warmly into her home.

After lunch and visiting, my mom, Jill, and I explored Hallein. Elisabeth dropped us off at my old school and we followed my beautiful walk back to the train station passing flowing brooks (the weather was unseasonably warm), centuries-old buildings, cobblestones, and narrow passages and alleys (the graffiti, “sex” written in large blue letters in one tunnel, was just as unfaded as five years ago). We made a pit stop at the main church, and the house where the composer of the music for “Silent Night” lived.
The walk was such a flash of memories—the restaurant where I ran into my history teacher who adored me; the little sign for picture frames, a new word at the time; The book store where I window shopped waiting for my train; the ice cream store I ran to the moment it opened in spring. Even if mundane they still meant something. Those walks always felt very solitary in the past. Experiencing them with family was something new, exciting, and still surreal.
After our walk Elisabeth drove my family up one of the nearby mountains—somewhere high enough so one could see snow on the ground. It was the most snow my mom and sister have ever seen—even if it was old and gross by my standards. The evening was filled with socializing. I always thought that my mom and host mom's easygoingness and independence reminded me of the other. I often pictured them meeting, and it was finally happening.




The 30th began bright and early with a train ride to Salzburg—where we would go all out and be the ultimate American tourists: we had book three places on the 9:30am Sound of Music tour.
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That internet meme is probably more famous in Austria than the movie itself. Most people I knew who heard of the movie disliked it on principle. I never would have done the tour on my own because of this. However I'm secretly glad I could use my family as an “excuse” to hum along to the songs and revisit some interesting sites. It was also a great way to see Mondsee, another lake in the Salzkammergut (that also has some cool much older archaeology going on).
For part of the afternoon I let my mom and sister do some touristy things while I wandered a bit and spent time with a friend who worked at a youth hostel.

Our evening was spent doing the other stereotypical spending-time-abroad-in-Europe activities. My host brother joined us for a late night of Kebap eating, “Irish Pub” frequenting, and a race to catch the last train back home.

What a day!

31 December

When we got back to Villach that afternoon, Jill and I were exhausted. We napped while my mom got to explore more of Villach. Then we switched places.

Jill and my New Year was spent at a gorgeous and delicious mountain top restaurant just outside of Villach. We joined some of my international friends and acquaintances here for a very cozy and fun New Years celebration—complete with seeing all the fireworks shows in the valley and dancing. We didn't get too crazy, though, because we had some big plans for the next day.




1 January—a whirlwind trip to Venice

Fun fact: Villach is just 3.5 hours from Venice by train. A few days before we decided to take advantage of this. I had already seen Venice, but of course my mom and sister didn't. We were only there for a few hours, but had some time to wander through the windings streets, gaze at the canals and gondolas, and make it to San Marco's square. We even caught a view of the Grand Canal just as the sun was setting. Our journey back to Villach was an adventure in itself. From the bus that didn't exist, to the inability to buy tickets to Villach in the train station, to very rapid Italian rants on the train at midnight, we definitely got a full experience.




Early on the 2nd my mom and sister hastily packed and took an early train back to Vienna—making it just in time. It was such a wonderful visit. Finally, a few weeks later, I am just beginning to process how these worlds collided. For sure it was an unforgettable visit =)